Tennis is a Mental Sport!  

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My son is on the tennis team for middle school (Jr. High for those of us over 30). He was really excited about playing tennis because I played tennis in high school. He wasn't so excited about playing baseball after he got plastered by a pitch when he was 7 so we moved on to other sports and tennis is something I think he has some great potential in. He needs to be a little more driven but hey, he's 12 and girls and video games are still a priority in his mind.

I go out to the court with him and we do some exercises that I remember doing as a youngster to help develop diffrent aspects of his game. I have to admit his mental game is pretty strong, so I'm thinking the rest should be much easier. The problem is at this point he is pretty sucky. It's not his fault. I can only work with him a limited amount of time and I've come to find out that his "coach" is merely that in name. My son doesn't even know his coach's name because the guy never gave it to the kids. He is supposed to be a tennis player, but yesterday I went to my sons match to watch. Half of the kids didn't know how to score a match. They didn't know which side to serve from, they didn't understand when to switch sides, and they didn't understand how to play doubles. This is half of the kids. The other half understood but totally sucked at this game.

I was never a great player, but I was better than average. I didn't have the drive to be great. It was fun for me, but I didn't take the sport seriously enough to make it my focus all the time. It's not something I regret. I still enjoy the game and I'm sure that's because I never made it a job. I don't want my son to make it a job either, but I want him to see progress and this "coach" does the team a disservice. He seems to think that coaching is merely having the kids hit forehands all day at practice and standing outside the court clapping when they play (lose every single match).

Out of 9 matches yesterday, my son's team won 1 game. For those of you that don't play tennis a set consists of 6 games. At this level they only play a single set each. Sooooo we could break that down as 54-1.....I know winning isn't everything but come on seriously....how about being competitive....So we shall see how tomorrow's match goes...I'm hoping for 2 games won this time...

Don't know if I mentioned but my dad's biopsy came back clear...WOOHOO!! So we move on to see what the docs at Stanford have to say about it....Fingers and toes are still crossed, but it's looking better and better for the home team on that front.

I have been safe from the HIYAA!! Since my little one developed an infection on his toe. He informed me that his kicking would have to wait until said toe is "uninfected daddy". Then he has explained to me how he will make up for all lost kicks. So at least at tennis time I will be able to breathe without any bruising on the ribs to make it difficult or uncomfortable. Lord help me make through this week :)

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6 comments

Ha, UN-infected...kids always make up such cool words!
Praying for your Dad...

September 22, 2010 at 6:27 AM

Glad your dad came back clear. And bravo on the kiddo!

September 22, 2010 at 7:09 AM

Congrats on the good news about your dad, that's great to hear!
If one of your son's priorities is girls, then he'll love tennis, cause a LOT of girls play it...

great post!

September 22, 2010 at 11:50 AM

Well... this is right up my alley, in ALL AREAS YOU MENTIONED!

It's such a bummer that these horrendous "coaches" are in charge of these kids' games, minds, and confidence levels.

Where do you live? Central Cal? I'd love to help in person!

Dayne

September 22, 2010 at 8:30 PM

I am indeed in Central Cal...Fresno area...didn't know you were from these parts... drop me an email...would be awesome to talk with you in person :)

September 22, 2010 at 9:14 PM

Glad to hear positive news about your dad! That's great!

October 8, 2010 at 5:13 PM

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